How will I be able to
find the time for
A.A. meetings, work with other alcoholics,
and other A.A. activities?
During our drinking days, most
of us somehow managed to minimize the importance of time when there was
alcohol to be consumed. Yet the newcomer to A.A. is occasionally
dismayed to learn that sobriety will make some demands on time, too. If
the beginner is a typical alcoholic, there will be an urge to make up
"lost time" in a hurry — to work diligently at a job, to indulge in the
pleasures of a homelife too long neglected, to devote time to church or
civic affairs. What else is sobriety for, the new member may ask, but to
lead a full, normal life, great chunks of it at a time?
A.A., however, is not
something that can be taken like a pill. The experience of those who
have been successful in the recovery program is worth considering.
Almost without exception, the men and women who find their sobriety most
satisfying are those who attend meetings regularly, never hesitate to
work with other alcoholics seeking help, and take more than a casual
interest in the other activities of their groups. They are men and women
who recall realistically and honestly the aimless hours spent in bars,
the days lost from work, the decreased efficiency, and the remorse that
accompanied hangovers on the morning after.
Balanced against such memories
as these, the few hours spent in underwriting and strengthening their
sobriety add up to a small price indeed.